 My business partner Jen & I interviewed a number of applicants and we were really impressed with Anna, a graduate of Adler University with additional trainings in Emotion Focused Therapy, somatic techniques, mindfulness, and yoga. Anna joins us part-time in our Vancouver office in compliment to her non-profit work in the community.
Anna has space to take on new clients and is currently accepting referrals! For client referrals or personal appointments:
10/22/2019 Working with couples Couple's work is such a sweet component of my practice. I often share a few pieces of writing to illuminate my views on being in relationship. The first is an excerpt from the work of author Paul Ferrini: The Real Purpose of Relationship So what is the purpose of relationship? It is not, as some suggest, to meet the soul mate and live happily ever after. It is not a romp in the flowery fields of nuptial bliss designed to help us forget our selves and all our problems. The purpose of our relationship is to help us become conscious of who we are, to help us learn to face our fears and move through them. Do you think you can be in an intimate relationship without getting to meet your wounded child and theirs? If you do, you may be in for a few surprises! The purpose of a relationship is not to love and be loved because we do not know how to do either. The purpose is to learn how to love and to learn how to be loved. And how do we learn? By making mistakes. By learning how to take responsibility instead of blaming another. Relationship is about discovering who we are by looking into the mirror provided by our partner. Now, that sounds rather lofty and dignified. But when our partner is screaming at us or blaming us for something when we were just trying to be helpful, it does not seem so lofty. One thing I can assure you is that if you are not in touch with your shadow when you go into a relationship, your partner will show it to you quickly enough. Of course, your shadow is not your real self. But you cannot find your real self as long as you are acting like a hurt kid or a victim. So you have come face to face with your shadow. You have to see the bags of fears, anger, insecurities and lack of worthiness that hold you back. And you know what? Your partner – and I don’t care who he or she is – is always uniquely skilled at showing you all your weaknesses. - Paul Ferrini The next piece of writing that resonates deeply with me is a combination of two quotes brought together by Choose Again in one of their daily emails to subscribers (I recommend!). Unconditional? Only love that continues to flow in the face of anger, blame and indifference can be called love. All else is simply a transaction. - Vironika Tugaleva If I heard blame, I did not hear correctly. If I heard attack I was mistaken. If I felt your indifference I was feeling an echo of an old story I have told myself for decades. Love is the gentle recognition that You and I are One. When you speak and all I hear is Love regardless of what you are actually saying, then I will know that Love is the essence of Who You and I are. - Diederick Wolsak Allison RiceAllison Rice is a Registered Clinical Counsellor, with over 20 years of experience, who works with clients in offices in Vancouver and Courtenay, BC. Splitting her time between the city of Vancouver, where she grew up and where her family resides, and the beauty of the Comox Valley is a dream she’s worked towards for a number of years. 9/16/2019 2 Comments The work that I love to do.People look for a counsellor because they are at a crossroads in their life. Am I in the right job? Should I change career paths? Am I satisfied in life? I have a lot of conversations with women in their 20s and 30s wanting to talk about their way of being in the world: intimate relationships / partnerships, family dynamics, career choices, identity claims, their sense of belonging and purpose. The spiritual component to life doesn't get talked about much in many public circles. What does it all mean? What's it all about? These kinds of existential conversations are some of my favourites to have because I believe that connection is the answer to all problems and that isloation is the petri dish where struggles grow. I try to strike a balance (knowing how problems operate) between taking an expert position about certain problems and not knowing how people should live their lives. Allison RiceAllison Rice is a Registered Clinical Counsellor, with over 20 years of experience, who works with clients in offices in Vancouver and Courtenay, BC. Splitting her time between the city of Vancouver, where she grew up and where her family resides, and the beauty of the Comox Valley is a dream she’s worked towards for a number of years. |
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